Character

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Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
John Wooden

I can think back to the times that I confused reputation for character. Words matter, especially when it comes to character. 

It’s easy to focus on reputation – it’s how others see us. When we do well, and people appreciate us or the thing we did, that feels great. But reputation is just a shadow that is shaped by the light of our actions and words. It can shift with perspective and fade with time. Our reputation, hopefully, is a reflection of what is found in our character. Character is our unshakable core. It’s who we are – truly beyond the opinions and judgments of others.

When life goes sideways, the day is hard, the results aren’t good, the weight is heavy, our reputation is an insufficient refuge. But character is where we find strength and resilience. There is a word in the Greek language that I love – “Poiema,” which is where we derive our words “poem” and “poetry.” Beauty and artistry. Your character includes the beauty and artistry of integrity, authenticity, resilience, clarity, purpose… these are the steady ground on which you stand. Your character is forged and strengthened through hardships, integrity, and perseverance.

By prioritizing and investing in your character, you cultivate authenticity. Authenticity is a key ingredient in peace.  Circumstances will test you. Others may disappoint you. But your character remains a sanctuary to find clarity and purpose.

What matters most is not the shadow that is cast, but the substance – the beauty and artistry within. Focus on who you are and how you act when no one is watching. Let the shadow take care of itself.

Be Encouraged.